Being safe for a man is beautiful when he is also safe for you. It becomes painful when he gets tenderness from you while you get uncertainty from him.
Answer honestly about how much you hold, excuse, soothe, and absorb before you have evidence that the relationship can hold you too.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
