Do You Need a Boundary,
or Support?

You set the same limit for the third time this month and it still did not hold, and you have started wondering what is wrong with your boundary instead of asking what is missing around it. Sometimes the issue is not the line itself. It is trying to hold it completely alone.

Answer from the point where you feel depleted, even after you have explained yourself. Your honest answers help this reflection show whether you need a firmer boundary, more support, or both.