Sometimes the problem is not that you failed to set a boundary. Sometimes you have been trying to hold a hard line without enough emotional support behind you.
Answer honestly about what you keep carrying alone, where you need language, and whether the relationship is asking more from you than your nervous system can keep absorbing.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
