A boundary is for your peace. A performance is for his reaction. The difference matters.
Answer honestly about silence, distance, access, and whether your standards are serving you or trying to get a response.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
