Self-respect is not attitude. It is what you stop negotiating when your heart gets involved.
Answer honestly about standards, access, disappointment, and the moments when love tempts you to bargain with your dignity.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.