You know exactly what you would tell a friend to walk away from, and you have made a quiet exception for yourself more than once when your own heart was the one at risk. Self-respect is not attitude. It is what you refuse to negotiate once feelings are involved.
Answer from the way you behave once you are attached and the relationship feels real. Your honesty helps this reflection show how you hold on to your self-respect in love.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
