Are You Caring for Him, or Carrying the Relationship?
You plan, repair, and hold things steady for both of you, and you have started noticing how tired that steadiness has made you feel lately. Care feels beautiful when it is mutual.
Think about whether you are caring for him or carrying the relationship alone. Honest answers will help this reflection show the codependent patterns that may be present.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
