You have quietly stopped seeing certain friends and let a couple of your own needs go unspoken to keep this relationship comfortable. Love can ask for tenderness without asking you to abandon your own needs, boundaries, or voice.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.